December 29, 2023
Kia ora, e ho mā! (aka hello my friends!)We often hear that old yarn, "You've gotta be perfect to fit in," right? Well, let me tell you, it's time to toss that in the bin! Because here's the real deal: our quirks, our 'flaws,' they're like unique brush strokes in a stunning masterpiece. 🎨Imagine a world where everyone's the same - talk about a yawn-fest, right? It's our little imperfections that make each of us a one-of-a-kind gem. 💎 Those laugh lines? They're the trails of countless joyous moments. That offbeat sense of humour? It's a rare spice in a ...
December 21, 2023
Kia ora, beautiful souls of the online whānau! 🌺✨ Shel here, ready to embark on a blog journey that includes life reflections, humour, and a generous sprinkle of aroha. Grab a cuppa or your favorite snack – we're diving deep into the seas of embracing the present. Quote: When thinking about life,remember this: no amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of anxiety can change the future. - Unknown. This is a tough lesson. Well for me it is. I am alot better now about not worrying what comes my way that seems to feel a bit 'sticky'. The "Glorified Processor" Chronicles We've ...
December 6, 2023
Kia ora, tōku hoa! 🌿✨ In the rhythm of life, we often find ourselves entangled in the intricate steps of procrastination. It's a dance, not always graceful, sometimes comical, and for me, occasionally resembling the quirky moves of Chicken Little during a Henrieta heart attack! 😬 The Overwhelm Symphony Procrastination, oh, what a sly companion it can be! More often than not, it's not just a matter of feeling a little flustered. It's about diving headfirst into the sea of overwhelm, experiencing a mini meltdown where, in the words of Chicken Little, "the sky is falling, the sky is falling!" Looking back, I chuckle ...
November 23, 2023
💚Kia ora, all you sunshine seekers! Life is a wild ride, and sometimes we could all use a little nudge to ride those waves of self-belief. In a recent Instagram post, we explored 8 inspiring ways to discover your own self-belief, and in this blog post, we’re diving deeper into these strategies. So, grab your imaginary surfboards, and let’s ride the waves of self-discovery!1. Within Your Groovy Self:Start by digging deep into your own grooviness. Your uniqueness is like your secret sauce of self-belief. Embrace those quirks because they’re the brushstrokes that paint the canvas of your extraordinary life.2. The ...
November 22, 2023
Kia ora, my friends!  Today, let’s waltz through the fascinating landscape of our thoughts and unravel the idea that we shouldn’t take everything we think at face value. Now, I’m not implying your brain is playing tricks, but let’s be honest – our minds can be as unpredictable as a sheepdog at a country fair.Imagine this: Your brain, the ultimate storyteller, weaving narratives quicker than a haka’s war dance. It’s like a mental fable, but here’s the twist – not all stories are as true as a Lord of the Rings adventure. Some might be more Hobbit than reality.Life lesson number ...
November 21, 2023
Kia ora! 👋💚This week I got called out by MB (aka my beloved), big time too!😬  I've been getting really niggly about 'stuff'. Nothing really comes to mind at the moment but I guess my behaviour has been a lil 'not acceptable'. The 'niggly' is what comes out of me, when I'm trying to process things in my head and frustration peers its head... when things that I'm trying to process don't work out smoothly in how I want it.  It's what I call a 'mindfug' moment. ☝️ MB would say I've been a 'shut'.   It was pointed out ...
October 26, 2023
Kia ora, beautiful souls! 🌟Today, I want to take you on a journey - my journey. It's a journey filled with laughter, self-discovery, and an epic battle with self-doubt. But through it all, it's a journey of love and not just any love, but the most important love of all – self-love.In a world that often makes us question our worth, I've come to realize the incredible power of self-love and self-acceptance. It's a journey that wasn't always a walk in the park, but let me tell you, the reward at the end is worth every uphill battle.Every day, I ...
October 22, 2023
"Whāia te iti kahurangi, ki te tuohu koe, me he maunga teitei." Translation: "Seek the treasure you value most dearly: if you bow your head, let it be to a lofty mountain."👋Kia ora!Picture this: you're on a quest to chase your wildest dreams, and your ultimate goal is perched at the peak of a mountain that seems to touch the heavens. It's like trying to snatch a shooting star – dazzling but seemingly unattainable.Now, here's where the adventure takes a hilarious twist. The path to that lofty mountain is less of a red carpet and more of a comedy club ...
October 21, 2023
Kia ora!💚 In a world where life can feel as unpredictable as chasing drop bears (with a few cheeky magpies in the mix), my beloved (let's call them MB) and I have always shared an unshakable love for the great outdoors. Camping, with its promises of pure, unadulterated fresh air and the sweet serenade of native birdlife, offers us a slice of paradise away from the non-stop buzz of the 'real' world.Whenever things start to feel a bit stagnant, a tad sticky, and everything seems to close in on me, searching for that small pocket of fresh air is akin ...
October 20, 2023
💚 Mōrena!  Ever wished you could travel back to those days when the world was your playground, and laughter flowed like sweet music? Well, guess what? Your inner child still remembers, and it's about time you had a playdate with them! They are that awesome, rebellious side of you that refuses to adult. They're the keeper of your youthful spirit, the guardian of your creativity, and the magician behind your sense of wonder.Now, why should you hop on this magical reunion train? For starters, it's the express route to your happiness oasis.  Imagine shedding the grown-up stress, nurturing your creativity, and ...

Kia ora! I'm Shel, the creative brain behind 'The Art of Acceptance.'

🎨 As a Maori enthusiast on a never-ending journey of self-discovery and personal growth, I invite you to join me in exploring the vibrant canvas of life.

With a sprinkle of humour and a deep love for nature and life itself, my blog is a testament to the art of acceptance.

From life's quirkiest lessons to the sweet symphony of love and the comedy of everyday mishaps, I'm here to share, learn, and make you giggle. Nature is my muse, music my companion, and connection my guiding star.

At the ripe age of 50, I've made it my mission to enjoy life even more, with a definite wanderlust for travel. So, let's navigate this beautiful world together, one blog post at a time.

Join me on this whimsical journey of acceptance, wisdom, and laughter. Welcome to 'The Art of Acceptance.

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